Mentor Coaching
Mentoring has been around for thousands of years. Mentor Coaching is
the latest form of this powerful guidance system.
If you study great individuals throughout history
you’ll discover they, at one time, served as an apprentice.
This apprenticeship usually lasted for years during which time they
served as assistants to a master. These masters had them sweep floors,
run errands, and do the “dirty work.”
In exchange, the masters would eventually share their
secrets, their sources, and their contacts. In the process the dedicated
apprentice learned to think like they thought, do what they did,
and get the same masterful results.
In 1500 BC the King of Ithica, Odysseus, needed someone
to look after his son, Telemachus, while he was fighting the Trojan
War. He entrusted an old friend to take care of the boy and to impart
his wisdom, values, and learnings. This wise and trusted counselor
was named Mentor.
What Mentor Coaching Is Like
We live in a much different world now. Life is faster, technology
is better, and communication –even halfway around the globe-
happens in just seconds. The value of being guided by the wisdom
of a Master or Mentor, however, remains as important as ever.
Every successful person has a mentor. Most likely they
have had several mentors. 
Mentors share knowledge and experience that is hard
for beginners to grasp on their own. Formidable learning comes easier
and faster with a mentor guiding the process.
Just think of the last time you spent hours trying
to figure out a challenge with your computer. Then someone came
along and --in two seconds-- showed you how to solve your dilemma.
This is similar to the value of a Mentor Coach except with mentoring
the objectives are much larger and the results more fantastic.
Like other forms of coaching, mentoring is about listening
without judgment and questioning for clarification, and challenging
for results. The safer and calmer the environment, the better the
outcomes.
How Mentor Coaching Is Different
Where Mentor Coaching differs from other coaching specialties is in
focus. Various types of coaches can help many people with varying levels
of experience in numerous fields. The focus of a mentoring relationship
is specific to the expertise of the mentor.
If an aspiring writer wanted to become a best-selling
author the shortest route would be to hire a Mentor Coach with several
best-selling books to their credit. A struggling, new attorney might
work with a retired Senior Partner from a prestigious law firm. An
aspiring speaker and trainer would become the protégé
of a nationally recognized professional speaker.
Here’s something else to consider: An up-and-coming
Life Coach would do well to engage a Mentor Coach who specializes
in working with new coaches. Imagine what a boost that would be.
Mentor Coaching enables the client to take a shortcut
without missing the scenery. As a mentor, your protégé
will learn valuable life lessons from your mistakes and skip the
painful –and often long- recovery period. A mentor provides
the wisdom of a lifetime minus the pain of acquiring it.
Without a mentor there is no guide. Individuals without
Mentor Coaches are limited to their own knowledge, experience and
resources. They might be able to reach the same level of success
–eventually—but the amount of time it will take combined
with the pain of trail and error will take its toll.
For this reason Mentor Coaches easily command the
highest fees in coaching. The requirements to become one, however,
are extensive and very specialized.
What You Need to Know To Be a Mentor Coach
Mentor Coaching is a unique combination of undeniable expertise
and exceptional coaching skills. This is not the level at which
coaches normally start out. Even those individuals who have experienced
tremendous success in their field may not have what it takes to
mentor others.
Mentor Coaches know:
- How to create the ideal environment and to
provide opportunities for their protégés to experience
“teachable moments” and use new skills.
- How to transfer their knowledge and articulate
the critical ideas and relevant points that lead to the desired
results.
- How to manage the learning curve and allow
protégés to explore the consequences of their potential
decisions.
Mentor Coaches have:
- Significant expertise in their chosen field
of mentoring.
- A burning passion to share their wisdom.
- Confidence and self-esteem to give the best
of themselves
Lastly, the best Mentor Coaches are those who
are protégés at the same time. Having your own mentor
enhances all the relationships in your life.
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