Wednesday, November 5. 2008
Baggage Restrictions for Coaches
by Will CraigWe are all frequent flyers when it comes to bouncing around the past, present, and future. We do it continuously. Call it lessons learned (past). Call it a to-do list (present). Call it goal-setting (future).
The challenge is spending our time in the place it will do the most good. As coaches, we recognize we can do the most for ourselves and our clients by prompting action in "THE NOW."
Mastering Time Travel
Time traveling is something we do frequently and with great ease. How often have we told our clients to visualize their future?
Even when someone is fully living in the present—living in the now—they still may not be achieving their desired results. Could this be because of excess baggage they drag with them from their past?
We might do well to adapt the guidelines and restrictions placed upon our luggage when we fly (in real time) out of town. The best advice seems to be, the less we bring with us the faster we will pass through the check points and reach our desired destination.
One Bag Only, Please
The future we dream about is like the narrow security checkpoints in the airport terminal. We can pass through them quickly and easily provided we are not carrying anything that will hurt ourselves or others. The bags we carry-on must be limited to one and must be small enough to pass through the "time machine."
If we are lugging an enormous trunk full of yesterday's baggage, we are simply not going to fit through the gap. Even if we check this extra luggage, it will only cost additional time and effort at Baggage Claim. Do we really need to bring all this stuff with us?
In reality, we can either jettison our baggage from the past or go nowhere fast. Happy time traveling!
Will Craig is the founder and president of Coach Training Alliance and co-author
of Think and Grow Rich for Coaches and the #1 best-selling Coach
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Tuesday, October 21. 2008
Coaching Tools & Techniques
As a coach you have many tools at your disposal. Armed with a Coaching Model; well-honed listening skills; the ability to ask direct, open-ended, insightful questions; and a natural curiosity you are able to help your clients by getting to the heart of their concerns.
You've also developed a number of techniques designed to help your client shift perspective; by looking at the problem as a disinterested third party; reversing roles; or even by shifting time. All of these tools and techniques are helpful in moving your clients forward, but there is another tool that many coaches are starting to add to their repertoire... assessments.
Many people think assessments are best suited for Career Coaches, and
while it's true that there are a number of assessments that help with
people searching for the right career, the right assessment can also be
helpful in coaching executives, businesses, people in relationships, or
any individual who is looking to understand themselves better.
Key Benefits
The real key to assessments is not in what they tell you about an
individual but in the common language they provide for working through
an issue. The Client and Coach are able to hone in, much more quickly,
on the challenges the client is facing in a way that is non-judgmental
and safe. The common language created can then also be used in
determining the desired behaviors and in planning successful next
steps.
If
you are looking for a great tool that enables you to breakdown barriers
and move your clients forward more quickly, it may be time to consider
adding assessments to your practice.
Dave
Meyer is a Business & Leadership Coach and a Coach
Training Alliance Mentor Coach. He is also the author of The
Sage and Scholar's Guide to Coaching Assessments.


















Comments
Sat, 11.08.2008 14:46
My favorite quote is... "If your sea chart doesn't match reality, go with reality." Old Mariner saying. :)Comments ()
Sun, 10.26.2008 12:43
Great Insight! I really found the tools and techniques Helpf ul - Thank You!Comments ()
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